Shia,
Well, your doing better than most by asking questions on the board. In order to answer your questions, I'll need some more specifications about your tank, lighting and water quality.
My tank is a 120G (48x24x24) and I use 2 x 250W MH 10K and 3 x 65W Atinic PC over my tank. I have a DSB of 4"+ and my water quality is great with CA up around 450-500. I haven't tested my Alk in the past week but I will do a total water test tonight.
Gererally speaking, clams are pretty hardy and if your new to clams I would recommend getting at least a 4"+ Derasa, Squamosa, or Hippopus. The maturity and type of clam make it fairly easy for you to keep without worry of a regular feeding schedule. Smaller clams must be fed on a regular basis and tank water specifications watched closely.
In an article I read recently, the truth be known that all clams need to be fed. The varied shape and size of particulate matter available to the clam also makes it critical for survival. I currently use DT's to feed my tank of 5 clams, of which two are new (Thanks Jim!!).