Yeah, some of the fish are old additions, some are new. My cardinals are like 2 years old now. I don't know, my parents are blaming it all on me and when I've gone to other forums in the past I've had it blamed on me but I try to follow all the advice I can. And no I didn't add an octopus or mantis
OK, now that we've unequivocally established that whatever is going on with this tank, regardless of what morons on other forums have said, is not your fault, we continue. (And BTW, based on your mom's reaction -- adding wrasse to tank in mid-blight -- I respectfully suggest that she does not and cannot blame you for what is happening. I also suspect that, while your dad may be as upset as you are about what is happening in the tank, his ire may be directed at inexplicable problems with tank, and not you. But I'm not you (or your dad), so what the hell do I know? But even assuming your family blames you for tank problems, have we not already established that the problems are not your fault? And has not every jack dog of us been unjustifiably blamed by family for this, that, or the other thing? And have we not inevitably shrugged and concluded: well who gives a flying f because I know the assignment of blame is illogical? The answer, I suggest, is yes.
Anyways, if you have fish that have survived while others succumbed to the blight, then I am less inclined to think that there is something chemical in the tank that is poisoning the fish. Otherwise, the cardinals should have disappeared as well.
Perhaps you do have a very well hidden predator, although I have no explanation for why some fish escaped its clutches while others have not.
So, here's my suggested action plan.
Stay the course. Do not add anything else to the tank and carefully observe tank and surviving fish. Use red cellophane covered flash light to observe tank at night to look for predator(s). Test all tank parameters, especially ammonia, nitrite, and salinity. Use GAC in your reactor (and change it frequently) to remove potential pollutants. Plan on keeping fish (and coral) population to minimum for next few months until you see how this works out.
Good luck,
Mike