Can you post up a full tank shot and also one that shows the positioning of the lighting above the tank? If the parameters are fine and no harmful substance can be identified, it narrows it down to lighting or flow or oxygenation or a combination of these.
I read thru the thread again to see what was providing the flow. I saw 2 mp10s and the return pump but didn't see the skimmer. I may have missed it, but do you run a skimmer? Also can you estimate the flow to the sump?
Edit: The FTS is for coral placement and to see how the flow occurs relative to the corals and structure.
I have to say, and I think I'm speaking for all on RC, that seeing a fellow hobbyist encounter problems when it's evident they're not being neglectful with their husbandry and who clearly are passionate about keeping a nice reef tank, it's distressful for us to read about this as well. We've all encountered problems along the way. So hang in there. You're not alone in dealing with issues that have plagued most all of us in one way or another.
Sorry for your losses. Surprised teh PO4 didn't rise if you stopped gfo and other dosing and increased feeding. I'm out of ideas except for toxins. Maybe, the rock or substrate was previously exposed to copper.
It's just my opinion, but I think you're cooking your corals. I have LEDs over my tank and I know they are powerful, even at lower intensity, can really damage a coral if placed too close. That light needs to be at least 8"-10" off of the surface of the water and maybe even higher.
Edit: I want to add - With the fixture that close to the surface and the corals, there is little chance the light is blended by the time it hits the corals. So one coral might be receiving a huge dose of only one color or a small fraction of the spectrum it needs for photosynthesis. With the light higher above the surface of the water, it will provide a more balanced spectrum when the light bends and refracts after hitting the surface of the water. Well this is just my opinion. I think the fixture is way too close to the surface and the corals and they're becoming photo inhibited then severely damaged and dying.
Copper levels as low as 30 parts per billion can be toxic to invertebtates. These levels are not detectable on a hobby grade test kits or a a poly filter.
Spyder, I don't know if it can help you, but I'll describe my personal view of nutrients balance. In my opinion corals like the longer light duration we can give provided that there is enough N and P. Light is very effective in reducing N and P, so if there is less N and P than how much light will consume, corals will starve. The longer the photoperiod, the faster will be nutrients reduction.
I talked about "light duration" because intensity is also important, but just enough to reach photosynthesis saturation point (about 200-300 mcmol). Exceeding in my opinion is less usefule.
Nevertheless corals can tolerate much less light (both duration and intensity) but need to find their food from other ways, I mean via eterotrophy. If You don't provide enough food via photosynthesis plus eterotrophy, corals will starve.
Your situation may be distant from any optimal equilibrium, because if You have much light, You don't have enough N and P; if You have few light, You don't compensate with feeding bacause You still have zero PO4.
Last but not least, the lower value between No3 and PO4 is the important one, being the limiting factor.
Very last, unfortunately tanks react very badly to sudden nutrient load change and often most of the corals could even die, especially if there already are other stressing situation.
Hope it can help You.
Luca