Do you have two drains?
If you do then you can try this, I haven't done it yet but I'm planning to do this to my new tank, being set up now. I have read about others doing this and they say it works great.
One drain straight pipe a couple of inches below the other drain with a durso on it. Have a ball or gate valve on the straight pipe and restrict the flow until the straight pipe is completely below the surface and the extra is going down the durso.
This way the straight pipe is flowing 90-95% and the rest is going down the durso. This serves two purposes, one there is not enough water going down the durso to make noise, and second if the first pipe gets clogged then the durso is the back up.
HTH
Keith