A letter from my Brother to the Tennessean concerning Virginia Tech

Very thoughtfully written.

I think your brother got it spot on when he was throwing the questions out about how you should feel after something like this. I'm not involved with Tech, but that's how I feel nonetheless. I went to PSU (similar in it being a small town in the middle of nowhere in which the students make up 80%+ of the population) and I try to imagine it happening there... and how it would have changed everything about my college experience (as 9/11 did).

I'm afraid that the news has a tendency to focus on societal issues and placing blame a little bit too much in the days immediately following something like this. Not to mention it seems they have an insensitivity to the way they report the news. A lot of times watching it, it seemed like the anchors were excited (for lack of a better word) about having something interesting to report. And the language they used seemed rather shocking and inappropriate at times. Using the word "massacre" to describe this does seem a bit dehumanizing. For me, it conjures images of historical, "goverment sanctioned" massacres like the Boston massacre... or worse yet, bad horror movies. I realize it's only semantics, but calling it a massacre does nothing to honor the lives taken.
 
thanks for the reply Brian.

For the news it seems more guts and blood the more of a story for them. They soak this horrible kind of tragedy up and exploit it for all the so called "news" that they can. It even left a bad taste in my mouth when I had a local news channel call me trying to get an interview about it. I had nothing to say as I think all that needs to be said has. How do you think I felt knowing it could have been my brother.... No need to ask me and tell the public. For the most part the media was ok with my brother. They called him all day following the tragedy trying to get interviews from him. The ones that did upset him was when he was asked to give names and phone numbers of students in the classrooms where it occured. He of course said no to that.

What is horrible is the media makes money off things like this. The rate for commercial time goes up drastically. As you said, it would be nice if they could be abit more "human" when reporting it. I wonder how they would report it if one of their own children was involved.

There will be time to figure out how to stop this. Maybe the school could have done more who knows. The killer seemed quite determined though. For now, let those families grieve. Let the healing process occur.
 
I have not even turned the news on one time. It was awfull and very sad. I do not need to see it replayed out on TV and see the horrific sceans myself. I think the media is very insensitive to the families who are greiving. I find it very disturbing to see graphic pictures and knew that the media would put the best they could get there hands on with this story so I chose to not even turn the TV on this week other than our daily disney run in the mornings. Your brothers article was great and I am glad he is OK!
 
When I heard about it, I immediately thought of Ole Miss. University, Ms., is Ole Miss, so it is a small town within the city limits of Oxford, Ms. (has its own PO). There were only about 10K undergrads when I was there, but when you think of what could have happened and how devastating it would have been, it is difficult to continue the train of thought. My best friend from high schools sister and her husband are both professors at VT, so it kinda hits close to home on that front.

The media is pretty much worthless, so try not to even engage with them. All that sells is disaster, tragedy and 'sin'. After 9/11, imagine how many people became depressed because of nothing but non stop footage of the disaster-for weeks after it happened. I imagine the same will happen here, though not as long a time frame. Everyone wants to blame someone for the issue, but there is often no justification for blame. When there is someone responsible, they don't want to take responsibility (a largely American attitude for the last few decades), but I don't see how any blame could be assigned here. The first murders were tragic, but there was no way to link them to the later tragedy in the time frame they had. What good would notifying everyone have been (one of the blame games I've heard-why didn't they tell us about the first two murders, etc.)? Would it have stopped anything more than a negligible percentage of students from going to class that day? Highly doubtful because, as I mentioned, what reason was there to link it together. The media have become th eworst dogs in America, and that says alot when America breeds some of the nastiest dogs out there...

There isn't much we can learn from this, either, which is frustrating. This was a random act. There may have been signs that pointed to the guy being off a bit, but only a close friend would be able to piece together an idea that something bad was coming. All we can do is try to be prepared if something like this happens (through actual defense training, etc.). It is a horrible tragedy and likely the worst part of it (moving beyond those whose worlds have been destroyed due to a loss) is that it could happen anywhere. That is one thing I knew we take for granted as Americans. We feel safe just about anywhere we go (in our own country, our leaders have made sure that no one outside our country will tolerate us...). My thoughts are definitely with those struggling here. It cuts deep, like the Russian school attack where they killed young children. Completely senseless and what do you gain? Humans are the worst animals on the planet. Period...
 
TitansFan, it looks like your son is a blessing in more than one way... I'm glad your brother was here with you, and not at school when everything happened. I have a friend who's at Virginia Tech now (who is fine thankfully) and he said that it was unreal there the day it happened... I can't imagine what it must be like having to step foot back on campus after something like this, let alone go to a graduation ceremony in a few weeks. My heart goes out to your brother and everyone else there...

Here's a link to a tribute video that a friend sent me. It's a good example of the support for Virginia Tech coming from the schools around the country...everyone's thoughts are on Virginia. Tribute Video
 
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