brc - Well, I think the idea that Randy Holmes was leading you towards, and also what LobsterOfJustice is experiencing here, is that if you are consistenly applying kalk to your tank for all of your top off needs, then you will constantly be shifting the carbonic acid/CO2 equilibrium, resulting in a prolonged pH shift, for the duration of time you continue to add kalk for all of your topoff. So, perhaps I misunderstood your question, but kalk is not meant to be used like a one time correction - you will have to continue to use it as long as you want to counteract your pH problem. Lobster of Justice - if you stopped using kalk for your topoff, I think you'd probably find that your pH would return to the ~8.0 range it was at before and probably rather quickly...
That being said, IMO it's an EXCELLENT way to combat high CO2 problems, which it sounds like you may have. I don't think we can draw a specific conclusion about the size of your house, impacting the CO2 levels, only to say that the bigger the volume, the more diluted the CO2 will be. However, you may have more carbon-dioxide producing appliances, people, pets, etc than the average smaller house. And this would all dependent on the rate of exchange with the air outside your house as well. (leaky windows, open windows, etc).
I have the same depressed pH problems as well. I'm gas appliances too, and we don't open up a lot. It seems like it's either too hot, or too cold here. I live east of Los Angeles, so presumably the CO2 concentraition in the air around my city is higher than average also.
I ran a vinyl hose from the outside of my house roof, through the attic, and hooked it to my skimmer air intake to try to combat some of the elevated CO2 levels in my house, with some success, probably on average around +0.1-0.2 pH. And I started using kalk for all my top off water, which made the biggest difference. Of course, it needs to be monitored, as there are no controlls on how high the pH will go except the amount you add to it. For most people, a solution of saturated kalkwasser roughly matches an appropriate dose for the amount of evap that occurs in their tank. In my 135, that was the case, and it worked perfectly. I'm using kalk in my nano auto-topoff now, and the evap has been much slower, so the pH (and KH/Calc level) improvement has not been nearly as noticeable.
I think for you, I'd be thinking about that well water. You're adding water with unknown quatites/types of disolved gases and other minerals... personally, I would not use anything other than RO/DI or distilled water in my tank (although, kalk does have some self-purifying properties, such as the precipitation of phosphates and other heavy metals).
Hope that helps,
Mathias