Alright looks like I finally have a parts list, I'm gonna run it by you guys before I buy of course.
A Diy 40b sump.
A Bubble Magus Curve skimmer.
A Sicce 3.0 return pump.
Caribsea Aragonite.
All dry rock.
Bulk reef supply RO system.
Phosphate reactor.
Hydor powerheads.
Various plumbing parts and valves.
Instant Ocean salt mix.
Various accessories like a refractometer and such.
Large brute cans to mix SW in, and store RODI
Extra pump for mixing SW
Filter socks (even if you don't use them now, you'll wish you had one, at 10pm on a Saturday)
Test kits! Good ones!