So just an update,
I'm sitting here in my hostel/hotel (Deep Siam, on Coral Beach, very inexpensive for the hostel or hotel room), and I dove yesterday in Jordan at the Royal Beach Diving Club or something like that, and that was pretty good, but it was a cold, windy, and dark day out, so it wasn't fantastic, but very nice. Crossing the border was a PITA, but I did it. I didn't bring anything but fins, mask, and a towel across (I wore my bathing suit, a t-shirt, and a heavy ski jacket cause it was in the 60s in the morning), butit was still a pain to cross, and I had to wait 1.5 hours to cross. The diving was very nice though.
Then today, I dove Eilat twice. One of the dives was LITERALLY 10ft from the shore of where I'm staying (it's a dive shop that is right on the beach). I walked into the water, and boom, a reef, 10ft out, at about 4-6ft depth. We swam along it, and it was covered with fish and corals. Then we went out to Moses Rock, which was insane. It was littered with Anthia and other fish. there were many goatfish to observe digging through the sand, small croppings of LTA with clownfish in them, and so much other stuff. I took plenty of pictures and video with a rented diving camera (digital). Considering dives cost about... 100 NIS per dive (about $26) including full equipment, wetsuits, a tank, and a divemaster guiding, it was definitely worth it.
If anyone is considering going diving in Israel, it's worth the pain in the butt to travel down to Eilat just to go diving for as long as you can. I ended up spending more on eating 2 meals a day than I do on my hostel for a night, and diving was very affordable as well. Overall a great time, saw TONS of corals, and TONS of fish. I can't even imagine what it would have been like in Summer if this is considered miserable... BTW the weather wasn't bad today, about in the high 70s in the shade, 80s in the sun, and it was a clear day out. Yesterday it was in the low 70s in the shade and high 70s in the sun, and cloudy and overcast, with a stiff wind, which apparently made the water very cloudy, but I didn't notice much. Not too terrible for diving, especially considering most of my dives have been off the coast of FL, which is usually full of particulate matter anyway.
I hope this information eventually helps someone who is considering going to and diving in Israel.