I think it cool that you are asking so many.......just means in the end your design will work because all of the research and thinking you have put into it.
I had pulled out my fluids book to do it by hand for you and saw that it didn't have charts for small dia PVC because it focuses on big mongo systems......So I went on a search for a chart that would give you the minor losses you needed for EXACTLY the fittings you want to use, rather than say 2-90s=1-tee, to provide you with the "exact" numbers.
Look what popped up on the Google, imagine that.........a very well and complete article from none other than........ It explains all the technical hows and wheres, and even a chart with ALL the fittings, because I was only finding the common charts, not ones with your ball valves.......So read up, calc up your numbers by hand and then you will really appreciate that online calc, and should give you all the answers you should need......one word of advice, careful on your units, or use the Excel spreadsheet.
I think I will bookmark this one myself for reference.....
http://www.advancedaquarist.com/issues/jan2003/featurejp.htm
And yes, the resisantance will increase as you try to push more gph through and your pump effieceny will go down......(flow in = flow out), thats why we took the limiting factor of 1 drain to be 600gph, hence each branch to be a max of 600gph......the only spot it will be around 1200gph is near the outlet of the pump before it branches, where it should be one inch and tee off to 3/4 if you need it to go into the display. Adding another tee, we could expect a maximum of 300gph at the nozzles which the 3/4" can handle........This is a theoretical maximum, it will be even less because of our efficiencies and minor losses. If you want a tank with rip roaring flow, you will probably have to add another closed loop circuit. Or increase the gph and get bigger dia pipe.
Yes, bigger tanks cost more to set up and stock, but are generally more stable and have a higher degree of success than smaller, that is where you money spent will pay off.
Its all good.......next time you'll be answering the questions because you took the time to figure it out for yourself......:thumbsup: :thumbsup: