My apologies if it sounded self righteous on my part. I have just personally been through three CBB and everytime one dies, I feel guilty about it. I overload the tank with food trying to get them to eat a variety, but always the same fate.
This last one, a few months back, seemed to be doing great except he would only eat mysis and a few at that. I tried everything I could think of to get him to eat, then one day - gone.
I have a friend who has a long-nose he does not want and I considered adding him to the tank. I thought they ate aptasia as well. I guess the search will continue for a larger CBB.
Thanks,