Anyone else notice how the OP is basically one long sentence? It's funny, I never noticed how much punctuation effects things, but I seriously read that at like 100mph without stopping. It made me laugh. Anyway, my opinion is that you are overstocked. 2 clowns and a goby in there is ok, but pushing the limits. Luckily you are using a skimmer, which definitely helps. I would worry about the crabs, at most I would put one emerald in there. I don't know what a cleaner clam is so I can't comment there. I have heard camel shrimp can start to pick at corals and fish, but I have no personal experience with them. What kind of anemones do you have? If they are all different, you may want to take one or two out. They can roam and if they run into eachother, which is likely in a small tank, they will sting eachother. Also, dead anemones can really pollute a tank, so if something drastic happened and 2 or 3 of them died at the same time, theres a chance it could crash the tank. On another note, the stock lighting in the nanocube is not enough for most anemones. But that is for a different post. I think the easiest way to answer your question would be yes, you are overstocked, because you have ammonia. Your ammonia should be 0. The presence of ammonia means your bio filtration can't keep up with the bioload. This is either because you have too many fish/inverts, or you are overfeeding. My suggestion right now would be to do water changes to get your ammonia down, and make sure your skimmer is working properly. Also maybe cut down on your feeding a little. Anyway, if you can post some pics it would help judge how stocked your tank is. Good luck!