Gary, I have used the Dolphin Ampmaster 3000 for two years choked back to only run about 1500gph. These pumps are versatile and you can safely place a gate valve on it and control your flow. So, you do not have to be so precice with calculations, although you should try to get the best match from the start.
The magnetic style pumps can not handle this stress and should be run at full throttle.
During the two years I have removed it from service about three times for cleaning and had to replace the seal once because of leaking. The pump is very quiet and I have been very pl;eased with it. The Sequence pumps are comparible to the Dolphins, very popular and cost a bit less.