Many different Towns and Cities put a variety of things in their water depending on the quality of their source water and their location. A good RO/DI unit will filter out 99.9% of contaminants. A great RO/DI unit will have double DI cartridges after the RO. The company AquaFX makes great quality RO/DI units. Their "Mako" unit is a 5 stage unit with double DI's. All cartridges and membranes are from DOW Chemical, their units have IN/OUT TDS monitors, and a pressure gauge is included.
The life expectancy on the filters will depend on how much water your going to be producing weekly or monthly, on the quality of your source water, and on the Gallon Per Day unit you choose. I take it your going to be making water for your 24g Nano, doing water changes monthly, and topoff weekly. Depending on the RO/DI Gallon Per Day unit you choose, I would change the sediment and carbon once a year. The DI's would probably need changing every 1.5-2 years. The RO membrane roughly every 2 years. Again, filter replacement will depend on the quality of your source water, how much water you will be making monthly, and on the GPD unit you choose. If you choose a unit that will produce RO/DI quickly, for instance 100GPD, then your RO Membrane wouldn't need changing as often, given your specific needs. Hope this puts things into perspective for you.