I am confused, you have to tell us that if the water level in the fuge is higher or lower than the main tank.
If it's lower, I sugguest you bring the fuge higher, so the pump sucks up the water from display, and return is via gravity back to the display. (Note: no siphon)
In which case you just fill the refugium up, since the pump is already submerged in water, you just start the pump, and water will be sucked in through the U-tube.
If the fuge is lower, and the U-tube is siphoning the water from the display without an overflow. You are running the risk of overflowing the fuge.