It sounds like you were really close in matching your pump and your outlet, but a little too large on the pump side. Your input is slightly overmatched for your output. The result is the excess level in the display. Now on my standard AGA overflow kit, it is adjustable....by pushing down all the way I am able to control the water level in the display. Can you push yours down farther if you have the same setup?
If you find that your overflow and drains are properly maintained and you want to lower the water level, you need to decrease the flow slightly so that the input and output are matched, but better yet the input is a little less than the output so you don't run into this situation.
Another option is if this is a submerged pump in the sump, drill a hole in the return line before it comes out of the water. This will act as a "spoiler" and bleed off some of the pressure. This works better than adding say a valve and IMO is cool because it adds some additional flow into the sump and at least the energy is put to good use rather than wasted as friction.
Though you could easily add a gate valve. Because you seem pretty close already, just adding the gate valve would be enough and the minor losses associated with it would be enough and the gate valve would stay fully open. But use a gate valve, not a ball valve....better for flow control and a more positive lock.