Running a bag of fresh carbon may also help. It is possible there is a chemical war going on and that is why your polyps are reacting that way. Carbon will remove a lot of toxins from the water, but you need to remove it in 1-2 weeks before it leaches the contaminants back out. Light stress on zoas and palys IME bleaches them. This "reverse cupping" seems like an opposite reaction to too much light. If the polyp is stressed, why would it open itself up fully? I do agree that moving it around to a different location may help, too. Good luck