Nobody's going to believe this anyways, but i thought i would give an update.
The guy that works at my LFS has had a blue haddoni in his sump for 2 to 3 years under pc lighting and it looks GREAT. Does really well, and he said that since he doesn't have room in his display for it he would be willing to sell it to me or trade it to me for some nice LE frags. Its 6 inches in diameter and he only feeds it once a month so it doesn't get huge. I think this is probably the best deal i could find. Not only is it healthy and been in captivity a long time, but its been doing this in fairly poor conditions as far as everybody on the forum would think. I'm probably going to take him up on his offer in a couple weeks after i make plenty of room for it to be comfortable in my tank
Matthew