Pics and actual numbers for parameters will help alot. Some people's definition of 'good' is not what others think is good. I've heard people say they keep their alk at 20 because they didn't think it was a problem to be too high...
FWIW, I replace all VHO and PC bulbs after 6 months, SE MH at 9 months and DE's at 12 months. May be overkill, but usually I see a sign from my corals around that time to tell me it is time to change... You'll be shocked and amazed at the color difference (and intensity). Most people think their intensity hasn't changed, so they don't change bulbs. Believe me, after 6 months PC's and VHO's will have noticeable color shift and intensity loss (apparent when you cahneg bulbs). Lighting may not be the problem here, but it is one area alot of people overlook. I've read of people keeping PC's over their tanks for three years without changing because they were told they didn't need to change them...