work overtime and start selling stuff you won't need anymore like tv's, this hobby ain't cheap! Make room in the freezer as you'll need half the space for fish foods, buy the wife something nice...
Get a spectrapure rodi system and you'll never look back - starting out with the best water possible is by far one of the most important things to ensure a good start. I moved to the next level when i bought a spectrapure maxcap and a lot of problems disappeared almost over night!
If you buy marco brand key largo dry rock, you will not need to "cook" it, it comes rtu. I used all new marco rock in my 185 and never had po4 problems, great stuff!
Best advice to anyone new is to just keep reading and learning. Don't listen to one person's advice, research the hell out of it. I think i have read more in regards to this hobby than i ever did in college; i certainly learned more as now i have unofficial degrees in plumbing, electrician, led engineer, ichthyologist, rock scape, aqua farmer, acrylic fabrication and chemist! Haha