NMOK is pretty much defunct I think?
I'm always ready and willing to host a get together at my shop, or travel to another location for a frag swap and meet up... they don't seem to happen on any regular schedule tho.
I'm in Albuquerque, but with the train going back and forth is pretty easy if you can arrange transportation in town. Otherwise it's a 40 minute or so drive.
Don't know of any LFS's in santa fe, just haven't looked tho. In Albuquerque there's Southwest Reef Co and Clarks (and Fins'n'Critters...sorta).
SWRC is pretty good, but may not compare to what you have access to right now. Rob can and usually will order just about anything you want tho.
-Doug