So you are basing this on anecdotal personal observations and not any actual scientific data.
What size tanks were the C.argi kept in while displaying this behavior? What else were they kept with in these tanks?
Your observed behaviors with multiple damsels is more likely to be an example of territorial aggression among con-specifics in the same location. Damsels are aggressive and territorial to begin with. If they are defending their territory from each other, they dont have time to fight with other tank mates. There are recorded examples of Damsels attacking scuba divers in the wild.
Generally, I agree with you that certain species of fish do better with harems or pairs, but alot of that depends on space. Trying to do a harem of pygmy angels like C.argi in a 30 gallon is more than likely not going to work very well. Trying to do a harem of C.argi in a 180 is more likely to be successful.