Longish update on the situation - I found a local source for formalin 37% to share, on Tuesday night. It is rumored to be illegal in CA, so not sure why Amazon is still shipping the other bottle to me.
But in any case, glad that I got it, I proactively did a dip of all the fish in the second QT tank on Thursday night even though they were not showing obvious symptoms. I used 2 gallons of clean water, with 2 ml Formalin, with a large airstone with tons of bubbles.
I did a first round for 30 min that contained 5 baby/small fish, a majestic angle, golden angle, fathead antis and a lined rabbitfish, and a blue dot rabbitfish. Once, back into QT, all the fish except the lined rabbitfish were happy and didn't seem any worse for the wear. The lined rabbitfish however was not ok, it freaked out, literally bounced around the QT tank a couple times then suddenly died within seconds. I wonder if fish can have heart attacks, or if his gills were compromised enough that he didn't have enough oxygen, and he burned the last bit freaking out.
Using the same dip bucket, I dipped a 7 inch chrysurus angle for 30 min, he went back in the QT unaffected and as ornery as ever. As a side note, I thought the chrysurus angle is supposed to be timid...but this guy is the meanest angle I've seen, much worse than my dead passer angle.
Again, using the same dip bucket I dipped a parrotfish for 30 min. The parrot went back into QT hiding and playing dead, but otherwise seemed normal.
Finally I dipped a tuskfish, I had to abort at ~12 minutes as I notice he stopped breathing. Oddly he would still swim around. In any case he went back to QT, and still wasn't breathing.. after a min he started floating around with the current so I thought he was a goner. I used the net to hold him in a high flow area, and after a few minutes he took a breath...but it was only one per minute. After a while I let him go, and he floated to a corner, but at least he continued to breath.
Based on the death on the rabbitfish and the near death of the tusk, I decided to not dip again unless there were obvious symptoms.
Fast forward to this Thursday night - everyone is fine but the tusk and parrot had not recovered their vigor.
Fast forward to Friday morning, the tusk parrot and bluedot rabbitfish looked close to death, the tank smelled of death. I also noticed the tusk fish eyes looked like his brain disappeared and sucked in his eyeballs. They were much further in than just sunken and I could literally see the eyeball rolling around inside the eye socket, I guess this is dehydration, his body appeared to loose half his weight overnight. He was also covered in extreme heavy slime. Much worse than any brook photo I've seen. The tank was fouled with his slime, I think this is want made it smell like death. Also, the water was covered with bubbles. I took these three fish, the tush, parrot, rabbit, and put them into the dip bucket with fresh clean water at 1.13 salinity(down from 1.20 QT). I gave them an airstone but left the heater out, so it would naturally fall to ~71 and give the fish more oxygen. I also put in .5 ml of formalin.
Tonight, when I got home from the office, the second rabbit in the dip bucket was dead, so I pulled it out with tongs. This freaked the Tusk out and he tried jumping out of the bucket. I think he used his remaining oxygen, because when I went to check on him 15 minutes later, he was dead.
I then spent the night getting all the remaining fish into individual buckets in the garage, each with 5 gallons of fresh water at 1.13, an airstone and .5 ml of formalin.
At this point, I have a few lessons learned:
1) all in/all out qt is crazy expensive, i could have bought a lot of extremely nice independent QT setups with the money lost on these fish alone.
2) Whatever this is, copper does nothing, my CP does nothing, metro does nothing. If it is brook, then my CP is useless or CP doesn't work for brook.
3) formalin dip may have stressed the tusk out too much and opened him up for infection - maybe it removed his slime coat? Maybe the oxygen level was too low after multiple dips or a large fish used it all; not sure how to validate.
4) 2 rabbits were the first to die after exposure to formalin, this makes me think they are very sensitive to formalin and may not be the best fish to dip
5) counterintuitively, all the angles are still perfectly fine - it is odd to me that they will be the last ones standing.
6) I'll think of something else once I get some sleep.