You need a DIN cable, also called a MIDI cable. Our part number is 7092.300, they are about $9. They used to be widely available but my last search I only found them at Guitar Center, they were generally used to attach musical instruments to computers and mixing board and now USB is more common for that purpose so the cable has declined in availability. We use it as the contacts are large and robust and hold up better than the more modern solutions with small fragile pins and terminals. To set anti sync, you will set the second pump in external mode and hold the food timer on the second pump briefly, it will then be in pulse speed, whenever the other pump is on the main speed.