The numbers I listed where from a lab. I use a Salifert Test kit for Mag., Cal., Nitrates, and Phosphates. API for KH.
I am not a fan of "lab tests", unless you are trying to discern if your kits are accurate or not. With your Salifert kits, what are your magnesium and calcium levels? With your API kit, what is your alkalinity level?
The test kits you own should be what you base your actions on. I would seriously consider getting a second alkalinity test kit to keep that number honest. Salifert for phosphate is not good enough for low levels and a Hach or Hanna kit would be a LOT better.
If your Salifert kits are less than a year old, then you can probably use them for calcium and magnesium, if older than a year I would get some new ones. Testing is something I recommend doing twice a week until you get the hang of it and know your tank trends, then weekly if you are capable of consistently maintaining your parameters (this comes with experience).
I would make sure your numbers are sound, then use the calculator I gave you to bring up the magnesium, then the calcium and alkalinity. I would make sure your refractometer is calibrated with calibration fluid, then get your specific gravity to 1.026 or 35 PPT. After you get your numbers where you want them, get that calcium reactor tuned in
Maybe find a mentor up in your area that can give you a hand learning the ropes as chemistry is not everyones strong suit.