Hey there wienerdog. Yes, there are lots of stories of coral/fish not making it to aquariums alive after being shipped. That said it is done all the time and with a very good success rate. Most online retailors have some sort of guarantee and you can at least get "store credit". If you want to look at it another way, how do you think all the coral in retail/wholesale stores get there? They all have to be shipped at one point or another. To answer your last question generally shipping is about $30 for the box charge and then of course it all depends on where it is being shipped from/to. For another possible alternative, That Fish Place, also an online store too, is in Lancaster, Pennsylvania. It is a fair distance from you but maybe one day you will want to take a drive out that way. Lots of nice stuff there. Also, I am sure there are some local reef clubs in your area. You should check them out. I'm sure that there would be alot of corals going around that club that you could get for pennies on the dollar compared to both retail and online stores. Not to mention alot of the clubs hold swaps and meeting sthat you could easily go home with more frags than you know what to do with. Good luck.