Seems that parameters stability and good bright lighting. It will not use Calcium and carbonate alkalinity directly as hard corals do but Xenia require the stability that alkalinity and calcium brings to the whole chemistry.
Besides that there has been some anecdotal evidence that Xenia does better when in the same system with some sarcophytons specially Yellow ones.
Having said all that, Xenia seems to grow like weeds in some systems and not to grow in others for no aparent reason, also after a period of explosive growth it can die off almost completely again for no aparent reason.