Okay, solution found. I used a pvc T, connector, and a cap. It was a modified durso set-up.
As you can see in the pic, I went with a modified T. as I like the way it sloped. I simply used a small piece of a 1.5" pipe for the connection. I glued it to the T (to keep it from turning). I picked up a cap that was easier to grip with some grip ridges. I drilled four holes at the 12, 3, 6 and 9 o'clock position with cap was on so the holes would go through the connector as well.
Once I had the holes drilled, I used the cap as a dial to control the amount of air.
I almost had to dial the hole to the size of pin, but I had immediately reduced the noise by 95% within two seconds. I have adjusted it a couple to times and it got a little off this AM. I adjusted it again, and the noise is 99% eliminated. Any residual (1%) is less than the sump dispersion plate that allocates the water over the bio balls (relax, this is my freshwater tank...LOL), so I am very happy.
So, thanks to everyone for your input! I have never had this issue, but in reading a large amount of information on the internet on on RC, it is a very common problem. My understanding is that everyone's situation is different, and not one thing works from tank to tank because of the many variables. So all the input was valid and added to my problem solution (or elimination of alternatives). Thanks again.