One thing that people can do to help is to find out her blood type & if your's is compatable with her's donate pheresis. BMT patients need this very very badly. Lots of it, and over a long period of time.
It isn't like getting regular blood or plasma, it is a very high platelet concentration that is desperately needed. Unfortunately, it is a real PIA to donate so most people don't do it and leukemia patients usually have to depend on friends & family in order to be able to receive a steady supply. The process of donating requires not only a long pre-screening questionaire but unlike donating whole blood, they put a very large needle in both or your arms while they run the blood through a large centrifuge. They return your RBCs & keep the very platelet rich plasma. The entire process takes a couple hours or so. You can have it earmarked to be donated to specific patients and the stuff is like pure gold to the recipients.
If anyone is able to do this, you will be helping her more than you could possibly imagine. Ask Mike about her blood type, When it would be needed & what organization that her hospital deals with for blood products. If you are not a compatible donor but wish to be a true hero for someone who is critically ill, call United Blood Services and ask about becoming a donor.
Frizz