marrone -
It's a negative comment b/c what you stated had nothing to do with what I was asking. I don't beleive in making broad generalized statments on every varitation of a fish in a given species, so I asked for detail from you. As well many Angels are known to do very well in reefs including swallowtails, Lamarck's, Regal's, Red Sea Zebra's, Watanabe's, Flame's, Potter's, etc.
"If I have either had or have had friends that have had these angels and I'm posting from my expriecnce, which you don't seem to like because it doesn't match yours."
This is not true if you had said "I have had a golden and after a few years it went nuts on my SPS" I would have listened totally and probably asked you a few questions. This is why I asked you if you have ever had one?
However going back to my first point, what you wrote had nothing to do with the question I had asked in the begining of this thread- "Does anyone know the difference or how to tell a male from a female? I am trying to figure out which one I have."
The point of all of the threads on RC is to offer experiences of other fellow reefers so we can all learn from them, if you had experience with every Angel I would listen to your statment and asked you for more detail on Golden's.
If you have read every thread on RC then you would also know there are exceptions to every rule, especially with fish. Many say no to Angels in reefs, others have success, to each their own (same thing with my Golden and your opinion on not keeping Angels in reefs).
Case in point I had a desjardini tang for 2 years and one day out of now where it started to pick and pull at my zoo's then started to do the same on my SPS. Now everyone will say Tangs are reef safe but there is an exception to the rule it seems in this case with my desjardini. Just like there seems to be an exception to your rule of "All the pygmy angel can and will pick on corals, it just a matter of when and what coral."
So my point with you is that just b/c it has happened one way for one person does not mean it will happen that way EVERY time for others.
Regards-