Swamp63, here is an easy way to tell what it is out of the three possibilities mentioned. Touch it. If it shrivels up and retracts into the rock, then it's an aiptasia. If it just closes up and is soft bodied, than it's a button polyp (Protopalythoa sp). It you touch it and it has a hard skeleton underneath it most likely is a Black Sun Coral (Tubastrea micrantha). Oh, and yes, it's fine but uncommon to have a Black Sun Coral growing next to an Orange Sun Coral.
JimmyS, Aiptasia can have short tentacles when disturbed, but not usually when just "chillin' out". Swamp63 may have just gotten a picture of it at the wrong time.