Okay -- so that all sounds good. I'd tighten them a bit more and test. Also, if the water is coming from inside the bulkhead, then there is a leak in the plumbing on top. If it is coming from outside, then it likely isn't tight enough. It doesn't sound like you bunched up / kinked the gasket. The bulkhead itself shouldn't move while you tighten -- just the outside nut.