Yes, my local reef guy was also stung quite badly by a condy. I'm allergic to insect bites and it seems if something stings or bites it nails me. I've been okay, so far, with bubble tip anemones and a ritteri anemone. I just want to try and play it as safe as possible. I've been stung by frog spawn, which was not pleasant at all. From my understanding you're more likely to be stung on the soft parts of your hands and arms (the bottom of your arm vs the top), so that might be why you weren't stung. I might have to get gloves if the sea anemone nails me. The frog spawn only got me once on the back of a finger where I had a raw spot. Was like getting hit with a live wire. I also keep benadryl on hand just in case.
Also, I was noticing how some anemones will even sting other anemones. Is it best to only have one kind in each system? Or is it more a matter of space? I was thinking about a carpet anemone until I read up they may sting and damage the bubble tips.