Guessing the grey curved tube is the overflow correct? And in the first picture is both tubes going to the sump? Also do you have a way to adjust the flow to fine tune the noise?
You'll have to play with it a bit. Only ways to potentially reduce single-drain-durso noise is to either vent it better or reduce the flow. Is the drain 'flushing' - water level/noise goes up and down? Best way is to go to a dual drain with a siphon as noted in the prior post.
At the very least, I would reorient the 'corrugated' drain line so there isn't a droop loop.
you also need to get rid of the extra hose from your tank to the sump. It dips down then back up. I believe that's where the water is building until its too much then releasing creating your flush.
I would also get rid of the dip in your drain hose. Then I would add a air valve to control the amount of air it sucks in. On mine the top cap was sloted on the sided so I could raise or lower it in my T fitting, controlling the air intake. Everyone was always amazed the could not hear my overflow at all. I know some people stick a length of tubing down the hole in the top so it is in the water inside the drain line. I did not find this helped very much.
Yes, the gray hose. Looks like it's spa flex. Try just lifting it t to the side and you
Should be able to tell a difference. And I can't see in your sock, but will probably get splashing sound if not submerged, which can be fixed by having the pipe
Go below the water line, but put a couple vent holes in pipe before the water
To avoid syphon, or more flushing from that part
At the top of you T fitting itblooked like there is a small hole there. Changing the size of the hole can make a big difference in the noise level. Since it is hard to make a hole adjustable, you can put a small valve in it to controll the amount of air that enters. You may need to be larger then it is. I hope that is clearer. If not I will take a photo of mine and post it.Can you send me a few pictures on how to do this or a DIY link
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