Yeah, the issue isn't so much the stability but once the fine tether that holds everything together snaps, everything goes south really fast, especially with SPS
Unfortunately, this week has seen a total crash on the tank, I suspect it may be from organics and the skimmer needing time to break in, but all of my SPS bleached and STN'd over about 3 days. I had the 'dry' look I've seen Leonardo mention before, I think this is a full expulsion of zooxanthellae coupled with the coral trying to consume it's polyp tissue to survive, I wasn't able to bring any back.
I managed to save a few which I traded to my LFS. It's sickening, some of them I've grown from the tiny 1.5 gallon reef over the last year into the mini colonies, and I've finally been able to get good coloration and growth consistently with this upgrade. I believe the increase in organics and reduced nutrient removal coupled with the copper in the Aquaforest food system I use pushed them over the edge.
I was tempted to quit, but I'm using this opportunity to start fresh, when I started my tank back a year ago, I wanted to have a patch reef-esq natural looking display with many little rocks proturding from a varied sandbed and some nice gorgonians. I feel that I got too entrenched in keeping SPS and wasn't able to keep my vision, so I'm going to move toward a far more even spread of LPS/ SPS / Soft Coral as the tank moves forward.
I'm excited for possibilities, but still heartbroken