NFMA - It's not about corals
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HELLO! Dave LIVES in Middleburg, If you did not know. Sea Devil was just trying to be nice and let you know that. What is your problem. No one can say anything with out you getting out of hand and insulted. Frankly I am getting tired of it.
Maybe there is something going on between you and Sea Devil, I don't know but please don't get offended every time some tries to help you.
Maybe there is something going on between you and Sea Devil, I don't know but please don't get offended every time some tries to help you.
nikonosis
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that was my wife posting and she posted like that because sea devil has been pming me, calling me names, and being very rude to me/us just because we didn't go to the meeting and she is sick of it. Like I said, im done with the arguing crap, im not going to say it again. I would prefer if sea devil didn't talk to us.
Well, if Sea Devil is PMing you and calling you names you should report him. Sorry I don't want to offend you, at least I know that something is going on between you and him. You might look into seeing if you can block his PMs. Regardless of what ever dumb things I might say I would not like getting rude PMs ether.
nikonosis
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well it was nothing against dave at all. If we had known about him offering rides we might of taken him up on it. Really the only reason we wouldn't is in case something happened with our kids, we would like to be able to leave without causing someone else to leave. Me personally im just beyond sick of all the fighting and arguing on here. Whether I started it or not, im not going to argue with anyone else, there is no point to it because everyone has their own opinion about everything and nothing will change it.
floridareefs
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Yikes if you report sea-devil, we wont have John from Atlantis posting again. All this moved on stuff I hope does not start again.
ReefNeck
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You know what I found.....When you read something on the forums or in email that offends you, get to know the person that typed it in person before taking it one way or another.
I did this at the meeting Saturday with MbDave after jumping on him in the forums one day. I approached him, Apologized for my comment and got to know the man behind the username. Once I saw the type of person he is I realized I had taken his comment the wrong way and he is a great guy. I enjoyed meeting him and talking with him and will take things differently in typed form from him in the future.
With Sea Devil...You have to know the man behind the username. John is a great guy. He is very straight forward and speaks his mind a lot but does not mean to offend. John responds playfully sarcastic to things and I have recently begun giving it right back to him in person. He smiles and jokes back with me. It's a lot of fun to have that type of friendship with a LFS owner that we can talk like friends, Not pulling punches and still discuss business in a professional manner.
I have not met Nik yet but I'd bet he's a good guy that like me, Has taken things the wrong way a few times due to typed format. Let's all just take anything typed with a grain of salt and give the person a chance in person to show what they are really like. I think you will find that most are really just the playful type.
Keri
I did this at the meeting Saturday with MbDave after jumping on him in the forums one day. I approached him, Apologized for my comment and got to know the man behind the username. Once I saw the type of person he is I realized I had taken his comment the wrong way and he is a great guy. I enjoyed meeting him and talking with him and will take things differently in typed form from him in the future.
With Sea Devil...You have to know the man behind the username. John is a great guy. He is very straight forward and speaks his mind a lot but does not mean to offend. John responds playfully sarcastic to things and I have recently begun giving it right back to him in person. He smiles and jokes back with me. It's a lot of fun to have that type of friendship with a LFS owner that we can talk like friends, Not pulling punches and still discuss business in a professional manner.
I have not met Nik yet but I'd bet he's a good guy that like me, Has taken things the wrong way a few times due to typed format. Let's all just take anything typed with a grain of salt and give the person a chance in person to show what they are really like. I think you will find that most are really just the playful type.
Keri
floridareefs
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Who said that, John A.k.a. Sea Devil from Atlantis? Through PMS? Man that is just not cool, if thats the case. But as others have said, maybe these forums arent the best place to handle this things. Hopefully it is behind you guys at this point.
floridareefs
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Honestly Fellas, I don't know how we get into name calling? This is like a bad bad soap opera. This is suppose to be a fun informative hobby. If you dont like someones tank, no need to post negative comments. Lets see if we can refrain from negative comments for a while.
Wow!
Wow!
Ok, I do live in MB I swear, I did offer rides to the meeting, John has not insulted me in PM's (but if this is a requirement we can work out an appointment, PM me John) I have shopped at Robs, but will shop at other places also....
Reefneck did approach me, he did I swear, Reefneck has a wife, he is alive, reefneckwidow is a deceiving name, I will investigate:hmm2: I know where Normandy and Chaffe is........Ah now I think I'm part of the discusion 
Cant we all just get along!!!
Wow!
Ok, I do live in MB I swear, I did offer rides to the meeting, John has not insulted me in PM's (but if this is a requirement we can work out an appointment, PM me John) I have shopped at Robs, but will shop at other places also....
Reefneck did approach me, he did I swear, Reefneck has a wife, he is alive, reefneckwidow is a deceiving name, I will investigate:hmm2: I know where Normandy and Chaffe is........Ah now I think I'm part of the discusion Cant we all just get along!!!LadyReefNeck
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