first fish was an ocellaris....maybe a month later i bought another smaller ocellaris, not extremely smaller but the one that has been in there longer shows more distinct differences like the black around her body. my question is that the older one shows dominance that looks like aggression but yet she turns on her side and quivers like she is submitting when really it looks as if the smaller one is b/c he hardly enters the anemone while the older one patrols it and host in it. which one is female? and are they showing signs of pairing?