TJDaddio
In Memoriam
Just set up a 37gal tall tank on Tuesday. Put live sand, base rock, water that my LFS makes themselves, 2 blue damsels and then 2 damsels I'm not too sure of, but they are almost clear with yellow strip on the top and a small black and turquoise stripe on their lower fins. I also have 10 red legged hermits. Anyways, fish were doing fine. Last night I did notice that one of my blue damsels was losing his color and was sort of hovering near the sand on the bottom - I knew that wasn't normal even though they have been changing color a tiny bit to blend into the rock or sand etc. This morning I woke up and he was floating . He lost alllll of his blue color - I thought at first it was one of my other damsels bc he had no color. I did notice he was a much paler blue when I first got him though, coincidence?
I'm going back to my LFS tomorrow to pick up my light fixture (Coralife T5 HO Quad Lamp with 2 LED Moonlights - can't wait), and that is when they were going to go over the water tests, water changes, etc with me. So I don't have any testing supplies right now to test my water. I did put a small strip thermometer on the outside of the tank and it was showing 77 degrees - is that normal or do I need a heater or ?
Tomorrow I will get whatever I need. Just sad I lost my first fish.
--- I am also a member of another reef tank site and posted the above, and the response I got was not exactly what I thought I would get by any means. Instead of advice, I was just scolded by one member who also said- "this is old school and we all know better than to hurt the fish". Really? I wasn't aware that I should already be a genius on this topic, THEN join this site to ask for advice.......If my goal was to kill fish, I wouldn't be here asking for help. This person did not even give me the "okay, you messed up but here is what to do now" approach, there was no advice or help given at all.....I appreciate advice and will always accept it, but complaining and giving heavy attitude back to someone who is just starting out and is there for HELP and ADVICE, just was downright rude and offputting. That is why I am HERE, ASKING QUESTIONS, and ASKING FOR ADVICE!
Again this was on another similiar site, not Reef Central, which by the way, I am much happier with so far
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Same person also flipped out because they said I do not need a filter at all. I thought the point of these forums was to help eachother, not to throw a "I know everything" comment out, then not respond with any helpful info? What is that about? If your opinion is that you don't think I need a filter, tell me why, explain it to me, don't just throw a smart comment at me then not help or explain your opinion on the topic. My parents had a 250 gallon, and I have 5 different friends who all have tanks, and they ALL have filters. I don't even want to respond back because I feel it is one of those people who think they know everything and won't LISTEN or try to HELP anyone...I understand everyone has their own opinion, but I feel like most people don't have the knowledge to back these opinions they are soooo quick to dish out.
Does anyone have any ADVICE to add? All I have ever wanted is help and advice. Besides that wonderful conversation this morning, I'm still upset one of my fish died.... so not a good day so far...
I'm going back to my LFS tomorrow to pick up my light fixture (Coralife T5 HO Quad Lamp with 2 LED Moonlights - can't wait), and that is when they were going to go over the water tests, water changes, etc with me. So I don't have any testing supplies right now to test my water. I did put a small strip thermometer on the outside of the tank and it was showing 77 degrees - is that normal or do I need a heater or ?
Tomorrow I will get whatever I need. Just sad I lost my first fish.
--- I am also a member of another reef tank site and posted the above, and the response I got was not exactly what I thought I would get by any means. Instead of advice, I was just scolded by one member who also said- "this is old school and we all know better than to hurt the fish". Really? I wasn't aware that I should already be a genius on this topic, THEN join this site to ask for advice.......If my goal was to kill fish, I wouldn't be here asking for help. This person did not even give me the "okay, you messed up but here is what to do now" approach, there was no advice or help given at all.....I appreciate advice and will always accept it, but complaining and giving heavy attitude back to someone who is just starting out and is there for HELP and ADVICE, just was downright rude and offputting. That is why I am HERE, ASKING QUESTIONS, and ASKING FOR ADVICE!


Same person also flipped out because they said I do not need a filter at all. I thought the point of these forums was to help eachother, not to throw a "I know everything" comment out, then not respond with any helpful info? What is that about? If your opinion is that you don't think I need a filter, tell me why, explain it to me, don't just throw a smart comment at me then not help or explain your opinion on the topic. My parents had a 250 gallon, and I have 5 different friends who all have tanks, and they ALL have filters. I don't even want to respond back because I feel it is one of those people who think they know everything and won't LISTEN or try to HELP anyone...I understand everyone has their own opinion, but I feel like most people don't have the knowledge to back these opinions they are soooo quick to dish out.
Does anyone have any ADVICE to add? All I have ever wanted is help and advice. Besides that wonderful conversation this morning, I'm still upset one of my fish died.... so not a good day so far...