noschmo, you have obviously never had real Italian food. The small "cucina tipica" (typical kitchen) in Italy have the most incredible food you will ever taste. After going there, we came back and started searching for real Italian here, but it is just not the same. There are some great restaurants here, but they do not have the fresh ingredients available in Italy.
In Orange County, we like Ti Amo in Laguna, Cafe Il Farro in Newport and Marco Polo, also in Newport. Also, Romeo's in Laguna.