This is going to sweet. But having owned tanks with this same foot print and rocking my PAR 38s I would suggest you go with 4 of them. But the will really depend on the rock structures you build. Also what lenses you're going to use I would go for some 80s to get a good deep spread. The thing that's cool about your build is that you can start with one Par and add more till you get just what you're liking/needing from them.
For the color thing and distance and a ton of other great info check out Beeker's build:
http://www.reefcentral.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1805886 in his thread you'll find info that will be very helpful to you.
I am tagging along on this one. Can't wait to see some pix as you get everything set up and running.