Okay you know what we are not being rude. Put yourself for one second in our shoes. Better yet think of yourself in a year with some experience under your belt and someone comes to you with a question.
Now with this question you have enough experience with it that you give your opinion. Then 10,15,20 people give pretty much the same advice.
Then this person " disregards" everything that was offered and decides to go there own way.
Getting my drift here. Now whether or not the nem was in your tank when it took a turn for the worst is irrelevant now.That part is done. What everyone is upset about is that from the very begginning when you got it we told you to take it back. The whole idea of moving it from one tank to another did not help the dying situation at all.
We are not trying to be rude we are just frustrated(we'll i am anyways
And yes i hope you have a beautifull tank and will enjoy this hobby for a long time to come. But do it slowly in strides. This is not a quick hobby. Everything in time.
And please ask questions.That is what is great about this board. But when you ask a question be prepared to take some of the advice to heart. But on that same note if you choose to do whatever it is that you are going to do. Be prepared to deal with the reaction from people that gave the good advice in the first place.
Soooo now that i feel all better please accept my apology if i was undully harsh
Lisa
