Very nice Joyce and thank you for the well wishes. Lola is my adopted American bulldog. She was so abused, that crate training was futile, b/c she had been confined her whole life and forced to urinate/deficate on herself and so continued to do so in her crate.She had been through three homes and was VERY skittish, running from men exspecially. Thev vets were advising her owners to euthanize her, do to her fearful nature, though she never showed an aggressive response to fear.
I wouldn't hear anything of it! Afterall, they should eutanize the people who treated her so poorly instead. She felt very safe around other dogs and my roomate already a Jack Russle, that I could still give away tommorrow, but that's another thread alone

. Anyway, I felt with us working out of the home so much and the JRT being alone, another dog, even if it was afraid of us, would keep the JRT company and if I were very lucky, eat the JRT for me

. There was no consuming of JRTs though

. It took Lola time to get adjusted, she would never bark and if she uttered a sound, she would retreat in fear from her own voice. She was a very insecure dog, but other than fear, very stoic. I worked with her and gave her lots of gentle affection and not, at 4 years old this December , she is a love bug. She gas her belly petted, she barks and greets people, she seeks me out for attention and thinks she is a lap dog at 76 pounds...lol. She is dumb as rocks, but loveable and very easy to direct by the tone of your voice alone, whereas the JRT is likely to look at you witht he look of disobeidience in its face, while it continues to behave as if it were entitled to whatever behavior he was being directed away from.
She has already 2 lumpectomys and they have biopsied clean, but her breed is very prone to skin growths and cancers later, so I am diligent and fearful of losing her at around 9 yrs of age. She is like my child and her medical bills come with her and the responsibility of bringing her into my home.Oh, you should see her!!! All white body with mostly prown ears and black around the eyes, like egyptian eyeliner...she is gorgouse...everyone says so, when theys see her.
As for you horse, I took care of one in particular that's name was Grenidier. He was said to be stubborn and defiant and very difficult, but him and I took and instant liking to eachother as 2 misunderstood souls. He never gave me any problem and was always easily picked and saddled, very obedient and loving. It was all in your approach. This guy came to supervise us as a sub for the regular guy, who had to leave on a several day trip and he decided, rather than us caring for ''our horse'', we should just care for the one that was next in line to move things along. Well he got my Grenidier. Lots of cursing and yelling later, he balled up his horse and punched my horse!!! I was a fiery and opionionated teenager, with little reserve for saying whatever I wanted, when it it needed said and even now, I am not easily intimidated by my ''superiors''. I let loose on the guy and was never back. I went over and comforted my horse, and picked and saddled him as usual.....he was just one that wasn't up fpr being roughed up, he just wanted a pat and a calm demanor. When people went with a do this and do it now, with no greeting or domineering stance, he would lock up and do nothing.Now with horses, it is important to establish dominance, b/c of thier size and ability to do real harm, if not properly handled, but this wasn't like that...it was just a quark for that horse.He was easy to manipulate with a gentle hand. I miss that horse and I still have his wooden name tag as a keepsake. Horses are terrific!
My chameleons were like horses too. Very intelligent and very interactive with me. The melleri chameleon is like a scaley grren dog, in terms of smarts and emotional complexity. they used to eat from my hands and reconized if it was someone new in the room. They suffered over loss, they fomred bonds, the had to learn trust.....it was amazing to me and I have been keeping ''unconventional'' pets for years and I know of only a handful of reptiles that actually have the intelligence to identify with a human and interact and bond with them, aside from mere tolerance. A boa might tolerate and not mind handling, but overall probably doesn't care who the handler is and will eat from anybody. I will also be very unlikely for it to seek you out for an sort of reassurance. These chameleons were not like that....they were mor elike birds in a cage that require either company from another bird or human interaction to feel secure and to prevent depression. Wonderful experiences I had with those creatures

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Andrew