Hey folks. I'll go with your recommendations and use the Alumina I have. I'll use a small amount. I also looked up a trick of "diluting" the epoxy 1:1 with AS thermal grease, which I also have on hand. Apparently it still forms a strong bond with good thermal conductivity but makes it easier to remove later. I'll possibly do some testing using this method before the full build.
mcgyvr I hear ya. In my situation, I am trying to design two tight clusters and if I don't like it I'll move to four. Which would just leave a bunch of holes where I don't need them.