Excellent green topic. Both green for the enviorment and green for your wallet.
My unit does 5 to 1 but that is still a huge waste. We not only get charged for the water usuage here but that usage is what determines what the city charges us for sewer usage.
The watse water would probably work well for a planted only pond as well as the other stuff already mentioned. Maybe even work for a larger Koi pond considering the fish would probably be hardened to fluctuations in water chemistry better than tank fish. No knowledge on that, just a theory.
On the washing machine side of things, maybe use a 55g plastic drum next to your washer for the RO waste water and use a pump to fill your washing machine. Would fill it faster and maybe give you 3 loads worth of water without having to wait for your RO to make more of it. Or you could raise the reservoir up above the level of the washer and put a 2" or so ball valve on the bottom of it with a large flexible hose. That would fill up the washer much much faster and would use gravity instead of electricity to move the water.