They dont look sanded off all that much but anyway ... fittings mathcing the size of the existing pipe are not going to hrut your flow, we are talking about one more straight coupler and another barb which isn't going to reduce the I.D. anymore than the barb on the bulkhead. But, heres the thing. I have glude ABS bulkheads to PVC pipe with regular PVC glue. Its not the best to use, the glue made for abs + pvc is the one to use. But it does work, it does bond. Seeing that yours didn;t bond at all, I would be very leary to try and cement them again. If you are going to try it again, you have that barb has to be smooth AND the flex pipe has to fit snugly. If the barb still has the ridges, then the only bond you will get is between the top of those ridges with the small surface area inside the pipe that those ridges make contact with. If it isn't snug, then again, you won't get a good bond. That cement is not gap filling, it is a chemical weld. It actually welds (melts) the two plastics together so you have to have good and compete contact between the two pieces.
With that said, if you are going to try it again, make sure the above "rules" apply to both pieces of pipe, make sure it is abs (it looks like it but I am not positive) and use the abs / pvc cement, not the regular PVC cement.
Oh, and if it doesnt work, don't blame me. I wouldnt do it that way. :eek2:
Good luck.