yodeling & mike31154, thanks for the tip on the flux. i was wondering. i've done plenty of soldering on copper pipe. i'm an a/c service tech for commercial and industrial sites.
i will get some flux, and work on heating it up more. thanks....
Good catch DaveMorris, I must have skipped over the plumbing reference.
DO NOT use plumbing flux. It's not the same thing and over time may (will likely) cause your solder joints to fail. The flux used in solder is non-corrosive.
Part of your soldering problems could be the specific solder you're using, along with the type of hook up wire. It's possible the solder doesn't have enough flux for both the wire, and the pad you're trying to solder it to, and that's assuming you're using electronic rosin core solder to begin with. A fine gauge electronic rosin core solder is a must! I mentioned using a Kester Flux Pen. It's like a magic marker, only rather than ink, it has an electronic type flux in it. It's extremely simple to dab a "mark" on each pad you intend to solder without adding too much. It makes a remarkable difference in how the solder flows onto the pad, and there is little chance of making a mess.
I'm not sure what kind of "battery powered gun" you have, but it may simply not generate enough heat. That, with the possibility of not enough flux will contribute to all sorts of soldering faults, cold joints, solder balls, slivers, porous joints with rosin remaining.... and the list goes on! I have a Weller WPL100 - 40W iron that does a great job, and can be had for $50. You can spend
much more for greater quality, or if you plan to use it a lot. I had a rechargeable iron years ago that might have worked, but IME they tend to be limited in the heat they can provide to make the solder not only "melt", but flow correctly. Soldering "guns" pale in comparison to a nice pen type iron, they are not a good choice for working on electronic circuitry.
For putting together LEDs I like a 1/16" tip on the iron. It doesn't carry a lot of heat, but it concentrates it onto a very small area perfect, at least, for
regular stars. It needs to be cleaned, and tinned regularly during the build.
Good luck, hope that helps!