Bruce - Definitely read Fenner's book, and for corals look to Borneman's book. I also really like Sprung's book, Corals, A Quick Reference Guide. I still look to this since it lists each coral on a single page (oversimplification is sometimes very helpful) and there's a quick reference graph showing how hardy each coral is, how much light it needs, and where you should put it in the tank.
I started out with Ricordea, then some zoos, then went to hardy LPS like my frogspawn. I went out on a limb with my blastos and got burned, but bounced back my second time around. The GSP's that I got are amazing. They're incredibly hardy and I've been able to easily observe their rapid growth in my tank. This is somewhat empowering in that it gives you confidence that you're providing healthy conditions, and I'd strongly support going with a small colony of them. But beware, like others have said here, they do grow quickly and unless you want them all over your aquascape, isolate them. Definitely avoid SPS for now.
As far as your lights, why don't you just run them 24/7? With chaeto you don't have to worry about it going "sexual" on you, so it's not mandatory to keep the lights on all of the time, but more light = more growth, and isn't that what you want? Just a suggestion, as I'm clearly not the go-to guy with respect to growing macro, sheesh!
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I'm going to look into that Red Sea unit you mentioned, thanks. If need be, I could always build a small shelf onto the back of my light rack for the actual unit (like I did for my light ballast).
You pH, does it swing that much in a day, the 8.1-8.4?
Yes, and do you see this as a big problem?
I live about 3-4 hours from DFW. Admittedly I haven't been keeping up with Melev's thread in the past several weeks
(but don't tell Marc, this is just between you and me) since I've been slammed at work, so I don't know anything about the club event. If I get caught up today I'll look into this "Next Wave" that you mentioned. Will you be there? Quite honestly, however, I don't think I'll be able to make it. Work will be busy next week, and during the weekend I plan to spend some catch up time with my daughter.
I will be in Vegas at the end of March, so maybe I could check out your tank(s) while I'm there?
Bax - I also now have a small PH in my fuge to move the water in the fuge and not through the fuge

. Hopefully this will help the situation. I'll go ahead and add UV sterilizers to my list of research topicality, as suggested. By the way, you still haven't told us your ReefKeeper settings.
Any more fish suggestions from anybody? So far I think the coral beauty is winning out.
And one last thing I'd like to clarify. I touched upon this earlier, but when calculating flow through a tank/sump/fuge, etc., is it the number of turnovers per
system volume, or number of turnovers per
tank (display) volume? I think it's the latter, but wanted to make sure because, as indicated by the values I posted earlier (21x vs. 33x) the difference is not trivial.