gaping is actually when the clam loses the ability to open and close it shell... it is very noticable. if you are concerned about gaping, wave your hand under the light and see what the clam does. If there is no reaction at all this is a sign of gaping and is not a good thing at all.
OP, if you just changed your flow, keep an eye on the clams. They don't like a lot of direct flow and will let you know. They do require a good amount of flow for filter feeding, but do not do well in direct.
Also, Maximas should not be placed directly in the sand. This can cause problems with their byssal organ and can kill them from the inside out. If you need to keep the clam on the sand, place a large frag plug or piece of rock under it to keep out the nasties. Good luck. Post some more pictures.