ok, ill work on the list, but can rule alot out.. my water is perfect, i check it, and let 4 lfs check it. flow.. they are on 2 frag racks on the front corners of my tank, and would say the flow is just enough to keep the palys gently flowing, basically my growout area. lighting is t5's 4x39's ( 2 460's, 1 420, 1 10k). tank is 48 bowfront or whatever, skimmer is a tiny p-.o.s. my wife wanted, a nano airstone, but actually works well so cant say too much about it. dont run anything in the tank.water changes every friday, 10g. no predators, lots more corals all over.
now after all that i realise 2 things i messed up on my first post..
1. it is only palys, not zoas also.
2. this happens basically within a week of me getting the new frags. the rest of the tank is fine, runs like clockwork. its just on new frags. so i guess that wouldve skipped the whole "how is the tank running" but i know thats the first questions anyways
so in short.. i buy a small frag of maybe 5-10 heads.. withing a week they start to dance around then go swimming on thier own... if i catch them, find them, or re-glue them, they live happy lives.