I think a lot of corals and anemones have a lot more "zap" to them than we suspect. Sometimes they might release more nematocysts and sometimes it might just be that different people have different reactions to the toxins. I can touch my gigs with no issue but they leave welts on my wife's arm if she bumps one of them. I have also seen LFS employees with welts up their entire arm from a euphyllia, yet I have never felt even the slightest tingle from my torches, frogspawns, etc.