Basically, dosing comes down to replacing major, minor, and trace elements, and can also include additives like nopox for carbon dosing to reduce nitrates and phosphates.
1) there are three main ways of dosing the major elements (Calcium, alkalinity, and magnesium). A calcium reactor, which uses CO2 to disolve crushed coral. 2-Part, which is liquid you dose daily for alkalinity, calcium, and magnesium. And kalkwasser, which is limewater used as your top off water which doses alk, calcium and raises pH.
Which method you use will depend on your needs. Kalk is limited in how much you can dose based on your top off rate. I personally use 2-part and love it. Currently manually dosing, but looking into getting an automated doser.
Suppliment kits that recomend daily doses based off of tank size are a shot in the dark, and debatably avoided. A large amount of people, myself included, will not dose anything that cannot be measured with a test kit. Trace and some minor elements are on this list. Water changes, in general, will keep these in balance and maintain good water chemistry, with the exception of Ca, Alk, and Mag which are depleated too fast in an aquarium with stony corals.
When I used to keep softies only, I relied on water changes alone for maintaining water chemistry and had no problem with coral health performing 15% water changes every 2 weeks. I never had a tank full of softies, so there may be some beneficial supplements to use that I'm not familiar with.
I think in general, you don't need all of the equipment when starting out. I'd just sugest leaving room in your sump and your budget to add what equipment is required in the future on an as needed basis. No point in buying a large calcium reactor for a softy only tank. you'd never end up using it, for example.
BRS has a 52 weeks of reefing video series on youtube. Takes some time to get through all the videos, but very well worth the time.